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A guide
to realizing if
your child is at-risk,
displaying
self-destructive behaviors, and
needs
your help and intervention.
Abuse
Abuse: Emotional
Abuse: Help & Support
Abuse: Neglect
Abuse: Sexual
Abuse: Teen Dating
Violence
Alcohol
& Teen Drinking
Anger
Anxiety
Disorders
Attachment
Disorder
Behavior
Problems
Bipolar
Disorder
Bullying
Conduct
Disorder
Counseling &
Therapy
Depression
Eating
Disorders
Emotional
Health
Firesetting
Gang
Involvement
Grief
Hotlines and Helplines
Oppositional
Defiant Disorder
Overweight
Parenting Teens
Peer Influence &
Relationships
Personality
Disorders
Post-Traumatic
Stress
Runaways & Missing
Children
Self-Help & Support
Groups
Self-Injury
Sexual Behaviors
Stress
Substance Abuse
Suicide
Violence
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ABUSE: Physical
Physical abuse is characterized by the
infliction of physical injury as a result of punching, beating,
kicking, biting, burning, shaking or otherwise physically harming.
The
statistics on physical child abuse are alarming. It is estimated
hundreds of thousands of children are physically abused each year by
a parent or close relative. Thousands die. For those who survive,
the emotional trauma remains long after the external bruises have
healed.
Children who have
been abused may display:
Often the severe emotional damage to
abused children does not surface until adolescence or later when
many abused children become abusing parents.
An adult who was abused
as a child often has trouble establishing intimate personal
relationships. These men and women may have trouble with physical
closeness, touching, intimacy, and trust as adults. They are also at
higher risk for anxiety, depression,
substance abuse,
medical
illness, and problems at school or work.
Children witnessing physical abuse -- and living
in an environment where violence occurs -- may experience some of the
same trauma as abused children.
Not all children are affected
in the same way. Children may become fearful, inhibited,
aggressive, antisocial, withdrawn, anxious,
depressed,
angry, confused; suffer from disturbed sleep, problems with
eating, difficulties at school and
challenges in making friends. Children often feel
caught in the middle between their parents and find it difficult to
talk to either of them.
Teens may act out or exhibit
risk-taking behaviors such as
substance abuse, running away,
sexual promiscuity and
criminal behavior.
Young men may try to protect their mothers, or they may become
abusive to their mothers themselves. Children and teens may be injured if
they try to intervene in the violence in their homes.
Next: Sexual Abuse
Learn more
Abuse -
Neglect -
Sexual Abuse
Emotional Abuse
- Teen Dating Violence
Help and Support
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More
information on Physical Abuse
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Boys Will Be Boys ~
Understanding the impact of child maltreatment and family
violence on the sexual, reproductive, and parenting behaviors of
young men.
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Domestic Violence: Protecting Yourself and Your Children
~ Violence against a partner or a child is a crime in all
states. People who are hurt by their partners, parents or
guardians do not cause the abuse. Alcohol and drugs do not
cause abuse, although they can make the violence worse.
Here are things that you can do to protect yourself and your
children.
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Family Violence Statistics: Including Statistics on Strangers
and Acquaintances ~
Compares family and nonfamily violence statistics from
victimization through the different stages of the justice
system. Family violence is defined as all types of violent
crime committed by an offender who is related to the victim and
includes spouse abuse, parental violence against a child, and
violence among other family members. Nonfamily
relationships used for comparison include boyfriends and
girlfriends, friends and acquaintances, and strangers.
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It Shouldn't Hurt To Be A Child
~ Hitting a child is neither patient nor kind, and does not
accomplish the true goal intended. It only produces
feelings of anger, resentment, and low self-esteem, not the
genuine willing cooperation the parent seeks. Genuine cooperation comes from the heart.
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Little Eyes, Little Ears: How
Violence Against a Mother Shapes Children as They Grow
(pdf) ~ Topics
include what children might feel, think, and do during violent
incidents against their mothers, roles they might adopt before,
during or after incidents, strategies of coping and survival,
and how violence may be experienced by children of different
ages, from infancy to adolescence.
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Mothers
and Children: Understanding the Links Between Woman Battering and
Child Abuse ~ The studies
reviewed here suggest that in 32% to 53% of all families where
women are being beaten their children are also the victims of
abuse by the same perpetrator. Research also suggests that
children who witness domestic violence, but who are themselves
not physically abused, may suffer social and mental health
problems as a result.
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Parent Abuse: The Abuse of
Parents by Their Teenage Children
(pdf)
~ Parent abuse is any harmful act by a teenage child intended to
gain power and control over a parent. The abuse can be
physical, psychological, or financial.
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Physical
Punishment and the Development of Aggressive and Violent
Behavior
~ The value of physical or corporal punishment is disputed among
psychologists; some regard it as harmless, while many others
consider it potentially harmful. Some researchers have
suggested that parental use of physical punishment may be
causally related to the development of aggression.
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Swallowing the Hurt: Exploring the Links Between Anorexia,
Bulimia and Violence Against Women and Girls
(pdf)
~ This report examines the links between
eating
disorders and violence against women and girls.
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Violence
and the Family ~ Violence in the home may well be the learning ground for later
violence in other social settings and in other interpersonal
relationships.
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Violence in the Family
~ The willingness to listen and to hear the cries of battered
families is the first step. As long as we refuse to ask,
battered women and their children will not talk about what's
going on at home. Their shame is too deep, and they cannot
trust that anyone will be able or willing to help. The
solution to stopping violence in the family is up to each of us.
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