When Your Teen Returns Home

Why Teens Run Away - Runaway Prevention

Coaching: Focusing on Solutions & Getting Results

• Be happy that your child is back home.  Many teens fear the initial meeting with their parents.  Remain calm.  Express relief and tell your child you love him/her and that together you will solve any problems.

• Make follow-up phone calls.  Let all your contacts, including the police, know your child has returned home.  Police may need to speak or meet with your child.

• Allow time to settle in.  Your child may need a shower, a meal, clean clothes, or sleep.

• Get medical attention.  Visit your family doctor to address any medical concerns.

• Talk with your teen.  Discuss how you can work together to prevent him/her from leaving again.  Acknowledge some problems take time and effort to solve.  Be sure you resolve the problems safely and reasonably.

• Look for assistance and support.  People and organizations in your community can help counsel your family.  Asking for help is a sign of strength and shows you are taking the issue seriously.  Visit your state's Family Help page for resources that can help and support your teen and your family.

   

   

   

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